It's hard to know what's the better, going out or staying in ?
There
was a time when there was no question, we had to be out investigating
the runners and riders. Often it was a fruitless search trying to find
some sort of stimulation, some relief from the mundane but staying in
was never on the agenda since we always felt we were missing something,
that indefinable something which like the pot of gold is never
discovered.
Out
we would go defying the weather to tramp the streets, a visit to the
local or, on a Friday a trip to the Mecca and a night of dancing. It was
all based on the expectancy of meeting someone who would be
significantly special for you to spend a bob or two and take her to the
pictures. Or very special and you would pull out the stops and take them
to a restaurant but, so much was riding on the last bus home or a wet
thoughtful walk home.
Today
with so many years experience and often disappointment it's easy to see
why staying indoors has its attraction. Not only do you stay dry, not
only do you keep the cash in your pocket but above all you avoid the
disappointment.
The
opportunistic person will take the chance of a convivial night out with
strangers, they will continue to keep in the game like a Lottery player
ignoring the odds and chancing to luck just one more time.
Of
course the home bird would increase his chances of a satisfactory
evening simply by playing red eleven, statistically proven to come up
more than any other he plays it safe by gathering the familiar around
him and risking nothing more than an early night in bed with his
favourite book. Boring I hear you cry but if you have accepted that life
has its moments, old age is not one of them and invisibility, whilst
attractive to the sniper is crushing to a sensitive soul.
I
hear the sound of a jet plane overhead "fasten your safety belts we are
about to take off", a portent of adventure and discovery but also a
portent of isolation and bewilderment. The trip to who knows where
carries the same bag of bones from here to there, at least here you have
the doctors telephone number.
As
you board the Cruse Ship for a three week trip to sunnier climes
perhaps that's enough. Perhaps a change of climate is all one needs, to
revel in the warmth to throw off the gloom and revisit the half full
glass of optimism that we all need.
But
genuinely, there can be few more satisfying places to be than in your
own home, with an iPad writing a blog to an expectant audience !!! :)
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