One of the social concerns of this pandemic is that we begin to mistrust each other and start to see other people including friends and family as a potential danger, a carrier of the virus and therefore an enemy.
If we begin to stigmatise everyone around us as a danger, to shun any physical contact including those physical mannerisms like a kiss or a hug, those signs of friendship like a handshake, then we are in danger of becoming emotionally stunted and instead become extremely risk averse.
The risk of being having a car accident is a statistical case in point. The numbers of people setting off each day, should induce fear if we stopped to consider the danger. We regularly visit parts of the world where disease is prevalent. We accept the
danger of pollution and that it kills millions of people. Climate change is brushed aside and we continue to inflict our destructive life style on the planet, oblivious to the damage and the disruption our children will face.
Of course there was a time when restaurants were not a must do destination, when travel was limited to relatively short journeys from home, when the only fast food outlet was the corner fish and chip shop.
The explosion of consumerist outlets and the people employed in them, are a relatively recent phenomena and it could be argued that their disappearance, for a short time is not too high a price to pay until you consider the people put out of work. Would our lives be forever stunted by not having a 'Chinese' or the more dubious refinement of 'Sushi' on our doorstep. Maybe Blackpool Tower rather than the Eiffel Tower, maybe the sound of a glottal stop rather than the helter skelter of an Italian conversation over a glass of vino in Rome.
Being released from the grip of hurrying thoughtlessly through our lives and missing that vitally important opportunity to find space to communicate with ourselves has to be a plus. To be able to look around and value isolation, as a time when we are able to do things which interest us. Time to value our own mental and psychological health rather than just the physical satisfaction of 'being there'.
The herd is outside the gates gnashing its teeth at the loss of GDP but perhaps, for the first time in your life, time is on your side to consider who you are and what you really value.
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