How's your attention span ?
I'v been listening to another one of those early Saturday morning radio programs devoted to rambling and the people who ramble.
Again
as last week it was a group of women, 90% of them had lost their
husband to (natural causes) the others had become divorced.
Listening
to the interviews as they walked through the countryside one was
struck, yet again of the need to belong. In this case missing their life
long partner, (they were all oldish biddies) they found the collegiate
interplay with women of a similar mind set stimulating and cathartic.
The babble of many eventually hones down to a conversation between two interspersed with silence for ones self.
One
disadvantage I could see is that whilst it gets you out when in all
probability you would be stuck at home the chatter would mask the very
awareness of the things around you and might just as well be held in a
'tea room'.
If you are keen on recording what you are seeing, photograph
or writing,there is a great amount of stopping and starting as your
attention is caught and in your minds eye you concoct the story line and
introduce a backdrop to the main actors, the ducks on the pond or the
hedgehog out for his evening stroll. Of course lost in this little piece
of nature you are soon lost to the group.
I
think perhaps two maybe three people, although three begins to pull and
create other orbits in this human based celestial cosmos is the maximum
for a walk that combines ones own inner sanctum along with the call of
fellowship.
It's
a cliché to suggest that women are always adapt at small talk when
together. They seem as happy as finches chattering away, two to the
dozen, bonded in their sense of not seeking or needing to move outside
the importance of the part many of them play, in the human theatre, that
of having been a mother. It gives them a self sufficiency which men
lack. Men are by nature more introverted as they seek a role, be it in
work or an interest outside work, to find fulfilment. This often leads
them to gather "outside interests" which are personal needing only the
intellect to sustain a feeling of satisfaction. This is not to say women
lack intellectual capacity, that is clearly stupid but having hung
their hat on the enormous task of raising their children they can
happily relax their guard and become satisfied with a commentary about
themselves in a way that a man, still to define his purpose can't.
Now if that doesn't stimulate comment then I know your 'attention span' doesn't reach the bottom of the page ?
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